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    No...just because you are on a diet, doesn't mean you can't look at the menu.
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    I spend time at my job occasionally daydreaming that I'll find one closer to home and not have to worry about the work commute . . . I haven't acted on that fantasy, though, by going out and finding a new job -- so I don't view that as disloyalty or "cheating on" my employer. It's only common sense for me to wish for and fantasize about a job for which I don't have to drive three hours a day plus work.

    For me, as long the sexual fantasy is in the realm of perceptual and hasn't moved to actual physical action . . . then it's not cheating. If it's a fantasy that isn't about or being shared with an SO, though -- either by participation or by telling them about it so as to engage them in your desires -- I view it as certainly an issue that should be addressed. Not because there's a cheating aspect but because there's, in my opinion, a need and desire that's not being met by either party.

    No, I don't view it as cheating . . . some fantasies have gotten me through rough times.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LeananSidhe
    Not because there's a cheating aspect but because there's, in my opinion, a need and desire that's not being met by either party.

    No, I don't view it as cheating . . . some fantasies have gotten me through rough times.
    Very well said, little lion !

    I must admit that I recently had a fantasy of sharing some sweet moment with someone I really appreciate in many ways, and then I acted upon it by FedExing it to her ... guess that's a fantasy come true that hopefully won't count as cheating ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvensong View Post
    Very well said, little lion !

    I must admit that I recently had a fantasy of sharing some sweet moment with someone I really appreciate in many ways, and then I acted upon it by FedExing it to her ... guess that's a fantasy come true that hopefully won't count as cheating ...

    She was a lucky lady, indeed, to participate in such a sweet moment, and it is more than likely she appreciated it wholeheartedly!!
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    She was a lucky lady, indeed, to participate in such a sweet moment, and it is more than likely she appreciated it wholeheartedly!!
    Now that's making me bloosh ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvensong View Post
    Now that's making me bloosh ...
    Blooshes are very fetching
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    Quote Originally Posted by LeananSidhe View Post
    Blooshes are very fetching
    Could that be part of a sweet fantasy of its own right ... ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvensong View Post
    Could that be part of a sweet fantasy of its own right ... ?
    Kind of a fantasy built upon a fantasy?
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