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    Players Online

    I just replied to another thread and it made me think of this one.

    Ever met a player online? A player in my eyes is someone who plays many people at one time whether it be to pleasure themselves, hurt others or nose around in others business...


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    I suppose I'm a player....I like the ladies....I like talking to them....helping them and being down right friendly....some are special friends....some have been close to me as confident's......others for their thoughts....a few special ones who rhyme with me.....how can anyone come here and not "play" with more then one person....many like to be treated with concern that includes compliments on their personalities....their writing abilities....their intelligence....their loving life outlooks.....I call this my sweet talk....I like to like....I like to love....I like women....I believe and have found them more then interesting ...and superior to men.....I learn from them as well being a mentor.....and yes....I've studied them....listened .....observed....and I still have no idea what they're about.....

    And I have been fortunate to have special loving relationships with a few.....
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    Met a few. But most of the players I've come into contact with really weren't deliberate, not callous -- by that, I mean maybe I would classify them instead as being more misdirected, those people who strike up friendships with many others and then perhaps find themselves falling for several people at once who fill the void in their lives. Instances like this, in the situations I've run into, are often not meant to hurt anyone, and there are those few good souls who are forthright about their mixed-up feelings. After admitting how they feel, they then don't string another along with lies.

    I categorize a true player as that person who goes out of his/her way to deliberately lie to, mess with, toy with the feelings of, hurt another -- definitely the kind of person who keeps multiple intimate relationships going at once but doesn't admit it to the others involved and tries to keep them from finding out about each other. Haven't run into many of this type of deliberate and destructive player, and I count myself lucky because I tend toward gullibility.
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    Oh yes I have indeed met a player online.... Which is why I am so careful as to who I get close to online. He was such a smooth operator and had me totally snowed. I felt and still feel really stupid for allowing him to hurt me like that. I should've been smarter and paid attention to all the red flags that went up. But, I was feeling very lonely at the time, and loved the attention he was giving me. I was insecure and vulnerable, and he took advantage of that.
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    I've known some players to tell lies about other members to cover their own tracks as well. Blatant untruths about others, about how they have been treated, and other more nefarious things in order to cover their tracks. It has cause no end of trouble, and hurt.

    Playing with anyone's emotions, or feelings, is in my humble opinion just wrong. But, I'm a caveman ..
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    I am repeating my previous post....to include this prologue.....in all my relationships and friend with all ladies I on our first meeting indicate that I'm happy with my life, will not change it and want no physical contact...this makes for relationships that never amount to affairs and more in the order of special very special friendships......believe it ...there are ladies who have the same disclaimer that I have.....any problems that occur are caused by some who think I'm not sincere and believe I can be changed......

    I suppose I'm a player....I like the ladies....I like talking to them....helping them and being down right friendly....some are special friends....some have been close to me as confident's......others for their thoughts....a few special ones who rhyme with me.....how can anyone come here and not "play" with more then one person....many like to be treated with concern that includes compliments on their personalities....their writing abilities....their intelligence....their loving life outlooks.....I call this my sweet talk....I like to like....I like to love....I like women....I believe and have found them more then interesting ...and superior to men.....I learn from them as well being a mentor.....and yes....I've studied them....listened .....observed....and I still have no idea what they're about.....

    And I have been fortunate to have special loving relationships with a few.....

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    I try my best not to be a player. What you see on line is the way I am in person. I am up front and hosest with who ever I talk to. I am in a relationship with some one and have been over year and a half. Did I plan to find some one and fall this guy no and he didn't plan to fall for me. I have found some that our players some tell me up front they are, some tell me that all they wont is friendship and that if find with me. I like being friends with guys and girls some of the guys i have met have become like a big or little brother to me.


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    Let's face it. Chat sites are like a henhouse......you have the chicks and the roosters.......Testosterone runs amok...as do female hormones. No offence to anyone but we all kind of play the same game in the long run. We play, we flirt, we sniff out the good and the bad and voila we find ourselves hooked. So in a sense we are all players or we wouldn't be here.
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    I could be considered a player. I've chatted with lots of men and even fell for a few myself. I was always honest with them however, and actually more men talked to me because I did talk to several. They felt secure in that.

    I have hurt some, but not intentionally.

    and I've been hurt.. not intentionally.. I think the men I've talked to really weren't expecting to care.. and had to pull away to protect themselves.. and I've been played by professional players as well.. I do believe they do it to see if they can win you over.. once they get that trust.. that gleam in your eye.. they drop you and move on.. i've never gotten to that point but i've come close.. the one player I think of most is the one I call Big Mac.. what a real jerk.. and he was a live guy.. offline.. they exist all over
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    I've met my share of players online. BUT. I've also met some very good people online. The good outweighs the bad, most definately.

    In my opinion, a player KNOWS exactly what he/she is doing......no matter who gets hurt, they are looking out for themselves. They claim they care so much about you when in all reality, they don't give a damn about anyone but themselves and what's between their legs and who will give them their next masturbaton session...sorry, just my opinion.

    I've seen sooo very many people fall for these types. In fact, some people are attracted to them and the reason, I believe they are attracted to them is because they know all so well on what to tell you to reel you in. They tell you exactly what they KNOW you NEED to hear.

    Now..if you tell a person up front your intentions....i do not consider that playing a person. You told them from the start that you just wanted fun, flirt, chat, sex, etc., at least you were honest.

    What makes me sicker than sick is to see men/women lead so many on at one time. Make that person feel like they are the only one when they are telling as many as possible the same exact thing.

    What do they get out of it? EGO!! But eventually, things begin to catch up with them.....that's when the **** hits fan and they lie to cover up other lies to cover up the lies that they forgot what they lied about. Sad!! What's evern sadder is the people who fall for them probably truly do care very much for them but hell....so do 10 other men/women, WHY...because they are very experienced at what to say, when to say and how to say it....it's programmed in their brain....they know what to look for. For example...they would not go after another known player....they would go after someone very humble and desperate for attenion or friendship.

    I've know a few of these people in my life and I don't regret it. I never knew people could lie so much to someone they claimed to care for so much. It's SICKENING!!

    Sure signs of a player....

    .....when they tell you they are ONLY talking to you online but please don't tell anyone that we talk...Ummm..they are telling you this because they don't want you to tell the other ones who they are playing also....they don't want to get found out. Know these kind oh so well!!

    ...when they accuse you of doing as they are really doing... coming up with things out of the blue and accuse you of....well, after you figure out what a player is..you'll realize that that only meant they were paranoid...they assume that everyone is like them..

    ....Lie and tell another lie to cover up the lie that they just told. You believe them at first but wonder...and then when you finally figure out that it was a lie, you remember that you always questioned it and now you know you were right...always trust your instincts.


    Makes ME sick that there are people like this crawling all over the internet but they are right next door too...at the bar down the road, at the video store, etc..they are everywhere.

    Just be very careful who you trust. I know I am very careful! Lived and learned it and could write you all a pretty damn good book about it. LOL


    Overall, I've met some terrific people online! Just a few bad seeds along the way.
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