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    Interesting thread ... and follow ups ...

    I take it the purpose of this thread is habitual liars, those who make it a practice of lying and have made it a part of their lives. All of us, as Party said, probably have told a few white lies, to help others, to ease feelings. No that outfit does NOT make you look bad!! Oh, your new haircut looks really nice ... (ugh), etc. Think the point is the habitual liars, The men who work late all the time (having an affair) -- those are the ones trying to get something they desire while hurting others .. or think they are getting away with something. These are the selfish, most times narcissists looking for pleasure and willing to lie or cheat to get what they want. On the flip side, if they are genuine in their caring for another .. well ... how could you trust them to ever be true?

    There are the the liars who create an entire persona (I'm 6'2, weigh 210 lbs, am a rocket scientist, oh, and I drive NASCARS as a hobby) ... these are the ones who are truly unhappy with themselves. Who feel the need to become someone else (especially on line where it is easy to make others believe) in order to feed into some type of fantasy life. These last two are the worst in my opinion. Sad thing is ... even when they are found out, the just move on, create a new fantasy, and dupe others. These are the dangerous ones. The ones who will do and say whatever they want or can in order to get whatever sick pleasure they can from those they dupe. They will most times play the victim if found out, and NEVER do anything wrong ... They will lie about others as well, and try their best to cover their tracks so they are not discovered, with even more lies ... GG and nightowl were right .. living that kind of life must be exhausting.

    I do think we need to trust our gut instincts on people. We need to be careful in our on-line friendships, and relationships. Some men on-line do prey on the trusting, the hurting, and seek something for themselves. I'll not speak to the ladies on line (since I do try to be a gentleman).

    Over all, it is a sad, sad life they lead!!
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    I wanted to add to this thread...............

    I found out recently that liars must make up things to cover the lies that they have told............. what a way to live life?? Lie about lying about who you lied too?

    I seriously look back on a particular person whom I once trusted..............took me a long time to realize that this person lied to me from day one and continued building lies for years............What made me continue to believe them? hmmm..they were very good at it!! When I first met this person, I caught them in a lie from just about day one....had another person prove they were lying to me by showing me emails, IM messages, etc. A part of me still did not believe it until it was actually proved to me. What did the liar do when realized they were caught? Started making up every excuse that you could imagine....putting me down because THEY lied....Over the years...OMG..this person lied to me about justs about everything.

    Ain't it funny how when a friendship has ended, the people who will start talking and telling you things about your so called friend. My Gosh....with friends like that, I don't need enemies.

    It takes a very long time to get over things such as this........I actually read a book on this subject last night and liars will continue being liars until the day that they day...I'm talking about habitual liars....people who lie to have friendships and tell another lie to cover the lie they just told. The book explained alot to me. It told me to what to watch out for. It taught me how to choose my friends wisely and to stay away from the bad ones.

    I thought, I would share a few signs, it may help you, it may not but it's surely helped me.

    I'm not writing these in order but just posting the ones that stuck with me the most..........

    Sneakiness...if a person is very sneaky, it does not make them a liar but sneakiness was one of the major signs of a liar.


    Defensivenes..... Liars will often take offence to any indication that they're under suspicion. They're likely to throw any accusations you throw at them back at you. They will also talk too much, feeling the need to over-explain themselves.

    There were many more but these two just stuck with me...

    What do you think are signs of a liar?
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    I wanted to add to this thread...............

    I found out recently that liars must make up things to cover the lies that they have told............. what a way to live life?? Lie about lying about who you lied too?

    I seriously look back on a particular person whom I once trusted..............took me a long time to realize that this person lied to me from day one and continued building lies for years............What made me continue to believe them? hmmm..they were very good at it!! When I first met this person, I caught them in a lie from just about day one....had another person prove they were lying to me by showing me emails, IM messages, etc. A part of me still did not believe it until it was actually proved to me. What did the liar do when realized they were caught? Started making up every excuse that you could imagine....putting me down because THEY lied....Over the years...OMG..this person lied to me about justs about everything.

    Ain't it funny how when a friendship has ended, the people who will start talking and telling you things about your so called friend. My Gosh....with friends like that, I don't need enemies.

    It takes a very long time to get over things such as this........I actually read a book on this subject last night and liars will continue being liars until the day that they day...I'm talking about habitual liars....people who lie to have friendships and tell another lie to cover the lie they just told. The book explained alot to me. It told me to what to watch out for. It taught me how to choose my friends wisely and to stay away from the bad ones.

    I thought, I would share a few signs, it may help you, it may not but it's surely helped me.

    I'm not writing these in order but just posting the ones that stuck with me the most..........

    Sneakiness...if a person is very sneaky, it does not make them a liar but sneakiness was one of the major signs of a liar.


    Defensivenes..... Liars will often take offence to any indication that they're under suspicion. They're likely to throw any accusations you throw at them back at you. They will also talk too much, feeling the need to over-explain themselves.

    There were many more but these two just stuck with me...

    What do you think are signs of a liar?
    Just Peachy and you?



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    cheers - partyde 

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    Can totally relate...

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    It is more easy to pick up on in person .. but typically it will include elaborate ruses, defensiveness, (as you noted), extreme sensitivity to being accused of lying, and other things.

    Sorry about your friend, GG ...
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    I have noticed that over time compulsive liars tend to go through friends like grease through a goose. It is never their fault the friendship dies and they always have some seemingly valid reason why they no longer wish to be friends with the other person. They do their best to isolate the other person from any mutual friends in an attempt to hide the real reasons.

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    I tend to over explain myself a lot.. mostly because I'm so afraid of losing that persons friendship... Sorry, I am not a liar.. but I've been told time and time again that I am.. what I don't get is why? Why do you have to tell people lies? Is it to make them like you? Is it to save face? Is it because you can't handle the truth?

    Sure i've stretched the truth a time or two, but in the end, I can't sit still with myself when I tell a lie.. it bothers me way too much and I feel awful.. so I don't do it for that reason as well.. the truth shall save the world.. if you want what I truly think, what truly has happened to me, just ask.. i'm going to tell you.. and if I do lie... it's going to be only in a thread where you are supposed to lie... tell me a lie.. or if i'm being sarcastic.. and I will say, I'm just kidding or I'm being sarcastic..

    I also do believe that some liars can't help themselves.. it's a part of their world.. all that they've ever known.. and they don't know how to not lie.. sad really, I almost feel sorry for them..

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