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    Quote Originally Posted by BeyondExcess View Post
    I can agree with that perspective. Definitely the part regarding advice and opinions of others. Still, there is a certain element of trust that would need to be keenly developed in order to have something private not look as a cover for other activities.

    Reminds me of a movie quote: "To some people, love doesn't exist unless you acknowledge it in front of other people."
    Tis a wonderful movie quote but I don't think they had an online secret relationship in mind when they wrote it.......lol

    I do though agree wholeheartedly about the element of trust. It is a matter of getting to that point and trusting the person enough to share your dirty little secrets. Then it is a matter of meeting one another's expectations. I do understand myself though and it is probably why I keep friends and foes at arm's length.
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    I have only been in one secret relationship.... and that was one of the stupidest things I ever did.. it wasn't my idea.. I have never been ashamed of who I was involved with... even if I have had some past mistakes.. I learned much from my experiences and in hindsight feel that much of it brings an appreciation being where I am now. One of the things that started it off right is the openness and honesty... not only with each other... but all of it in general. I would never recommend keeping something secret if it truly makes you happy.
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    Had 2 , one was a secret (his idea ) because he was having a lot of them
    2nd very open online ...
    Just my opinion it should not be a secret on a forum like this
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    I'm still torn on this subject. I understand both sides and think that the people involved should just decide what is best for them.
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    You make great points Tgirl. I have to agree


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    Great topic....my personal thoughts on this would be not to keep it a secret....Some excellent responses!

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